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Life
issues: False Witness
The dangers of lies and gossip
It is human nature to talk about others.
We are naturally interested in the relationships
and personalities that surround us. However
there are times when gossip can be a very
dangerous thing.
"Ill show you, Goodie Miller"
vindicates Sarah Kent following a reprimand
by Anne early in the episode. In False Witness,
gossip is combined with jealousy, ignorance
and lies. As a result, the consequences
are very nearly disastrous.
Rumours can start from virtually nothing
and can quite easily ruin somebodys
life. Observe, in False Witness, how fast
the talk of witchcraft spreads due to the
narrow views of locals, particularly Reverend
Judd.
In our own environment, we need only look
at the power of the media and the tabloids
to see people condemned publicly with very
little proof.
Perhaps you
can think of a situation when you have heard
a rumour and found out later that it was
false.
When you heard the rumour did you act on
it straight away or did you want to find
out more?
People like to make judgements but often
their judgements are based only on gut feeling
or what somebody else told them. There is
a reason why in most countries, the law
says that people are innocent until proven
guilty. We need to think about this when
we hear a rumour. We certainly should have
a good amount of evidence to
reach a verdict.
Many people also like to categorise individuals.
People can brand others too lazy, too serious,
too uptight
just about anything they
like without much to back it up. Before
you know it somebody has a reputation which
can affect the way they are perceived. Yes,
gossip can certainly be a dangerous thing.
If
you hear a rumour
. consider all factors
When we hear something about somebody it
is important that we first consider all
the facts. We need to look at the situation
from both sides.
Then ask yourself if it is your business
does it actually concern you? If it doesnt
concern you, it should probably be ignored.
If the rumour is that important, find out
as much as you can from reliable sources.
It may even be appropriate to go to the
horses mouth, the person
who is the subject of the rumour, and actually
discuss it in a sensitive way.
They used to say during the war that loose
talk costs lives. Anne almost lost
hers and many peoples lives are affected
negatively each day through just this.
It is not a good idea to believe everything
you hear. It is a good idea to consider
all factors, refraining from judgement before
finally reaching an opinion.
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